Do Cats Understand Death?

As a cat lover, you might have considered how things would be easier if your cat could understand what you are saying. Especially in difficult situations, such as the loss of a pet or even a human companion.

Does your cat understand what death is? Cats are so often misunderstood and viewed as detached, aloof individuals. But we know they have rich emotional lives. So how do they respond to the loss of a family member? Do they grieve as we do for a loved one? And if they do, how can we support grieving pets?

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Do Cats Understand Death?

It is difficult to tell if cats understand the finality of death, and exactly how their memory works

It is difficult to assess for certain how much cats understand the concept of death. Whether they comprehend the finality and permanence of death is something we are unlikely to find out.

However, we do know from many cat owners that some cats will show changes in their behavior in response to the loss of a companion, whether that be a canine or feline friend, or human family member. These behavioral changes indicate that cats seem to experience grief, just as we do.

The absence of a family member or companion cat may cause changes to a cat’s daily routine. As we all know, cats prefer familiarity and predictability so these disruptions can contribute to their stress. Cats are also very good at picking up on our feelings so they can detect the emotions of other grieving family members.

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What Are The Signs Of A Grieving Cat?

Cats often show behavioral changes after the loss of a cat or human companion

• Reduction in or loss of appetite
• Change in activity and energy levels
• Change in sleeping patterns and habits
• Becoming withdrawn and hiding away
• Seeming restless and unsettled
• Pacing and searching
• Increased vocalization such as meowing
• Seeking extra attention and being ‘clingy’

The grieving process can last from days to weeks to months. How long it takes depends on each individual cat. There is no set timeframe and can’t be rushed. But there are ways to help ease the sorrow and sadness, which we will discuss below.

What Should You Do If Your Cat Is Showing Signs Of Grief?

1. Stick To Your Cat’s Normal Routine

Cats may need some additional support from their owners after loosing a friend or companion

Cats are very sensitive to change and any disruption to their normal routine can result in stress and anxiety. The loss of a human or animal companion will have already altered the dynamics in the household. If you can, try as much as possible to stick to a familiar daily routine for the surviving pets. In this way, you can minimize the stress that your grieving cat is experiencing.

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2. Spend Quality Time With Your Cat

Cats may become clingy after loss, and want more contact and love from their owners

Spend time strengthening the bond between you and your cat. If your cat is looking for more attention from you, your comfort and affection can help them through this period of emotional upheaval.

Focus on what they usually enjoy. Perhaps they like sitting on your lap for a cuddle and being fussed and stroked, playing with interactive toys, or being groomed. Take time out during the day to do these things.

And while you might think your cat needs you to be by their side all day, remember to respect their space as well. Let them come to you instead of forcing your attention on them!

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3. Provide An Enriched Environment

Grieving cats may benefit from some distractions, such as puzzles or toys

Keep your cat occupied and entertained by providing plenty of enrichment in the home. You can do this by hiding treats or food in different areas of the house for your cat to find. Consider using puzzle feeders which are great for mental stimulation. Offer toys that your cat can play with by themselves. It’s best to rotate the toys that you are offering so that your cat doesn’t become bored with them.

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4. Encourage Your Cat To Eat

Some cats may show a reduced appetite after a loss, and need some encouragement to eat

If your cat seems to have lost their appetite, try and encourage them to eat. You can do this by warming their wet food (and taking care not to overheat) to make the meal more appetizing. Some cats may need to be tempted by hand feeding.

Never force your cat to eat as this can make things worse. If your cat hasn’t eaten at all for more than a couple of days, then it’s time to contact your veterinarian.

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5. Use Calming Aids

Calming aids can help your cat relax when stressed or anxious

Consider using pheromone plug-in diffusers and sprays, like Feliway. These send your cat happy and calming messages, easing the stress and anxiety from the loss of their companion. Calming supplements are also available and can be given with food. If you are unsure which product to use, your veterinarian will gladly advise.

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6. Don’t Introduce A New Companion Straight Away

The introduction of a new pet should be done only when the time is right for all members of the household

If your cat has lost a feline companion, you might be tempted to get them a new best friend to keep them company. Don’t rush into making this decision as introducing a new cat too soon can add to the stress and anxiety of your surviving cat. This can then lead to further behavioral issues.

Waiting until things have settled is a better idea so that your cat doesn’t have to adjust to so many changes at once.

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7. Consult Your Veterinarian

Behavioral changes in cats can be due to medical causes

It is important to bear in mind that the signs of grief can also be signs of illness. If you see these signs or other behavioral changes in your cat, it’s recommended that you get them checked over by your veterinarian to rule out any underlying medical problems. Your veterinarian will be able to refer you on to other professionals such as behaviorists if additional help is needed to support your beloved cat.

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Final Thoughts

Cats and people can be a great source of comfort to each other in times of grief

Unfortunately, there is no way for us to explain to our cats what has happened when a death in the family occurs. However, we can anticipate that they might show behavioral changes in response to the loss and absence. These changes are consistent with signs of grief. By understanding that cats can grieve, just as we do, we can make sure to find ways to support them through these difficult times.

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